Category Archives: School

To The Moon, Alice.

*blows off the dust* I haven’t blogged in 2012 over here. Wow. (I’ve been focused on posting a daily quote and daily photo over at schnik.it

I could say that I have been extremely busy, and It would be true, but I looked back and I have written 14 other posts about being busy in life.

So I won’t go on with that. What I’ve been concerned with of late, besides school, work, and other miscellany, is reaching for things larger than myself.

Meaning: I Like To Shoot For The Moon

Now, before you go and cover your eyes, let me explain. Growing up, I used to thrive on mediocrity; in school, in life, wherever I was given the opportunity to “meet expectations,” I did. I did not try, I didn’t stress – I was confident with half-assed.

I don’t know when it changed. At some point in my life I became interested in taking on the big stuff. I decided that I didn’t want to be mediocre, I didn’t want to blend into the world, so I kept reaching for the bigger dreams, the long-shots, the things I probably didn’t have a real shot at in the first place. Sometimes you succeed, sometimes you do not.

Reflections

Yes, I have been busy and I have been challenged. Sometimes, I’m even beyond my own limits, I rarely give up. At the end of the day, I feel fulfilled. Sometimes, I feel tired, too. I don’t always get to the goal I intended, but I always give it as much effort as I am able.

And that, my friends, is all you can do. It is enough.

Top 11 Posts of 2011

Well, we’re almost to 2012 and recently I posted my top 11 photos of ’11, so I thought I would dig around in my stats and share with you the items that a plurality of you decided to visit over the year. They’re ranked by number of views.

11: (Dis)Engaging Google+ – I’ve written that I’m not a fan of Google+. Based on my experiences, my opinion hasn’t changed from August 11, 2011.

10: 10 Things (About me) – Interesting, this post, written around my birthday in 2010 garnered enough views this year to make my list. I find it funny that it’s number 10. :)

9: Oh, to be Popular. #199 – My 199th blog post here. A photo essay of my top Flickr photos. Be sure to check out #1 if you haven’t already.

8: Crossroads. Help Me, Pathfinder! – A great post about my future education and where I want to go from here. I say it was a great post because it offered me some good conversations with people about the state of education, what I should focus on as I continue forward and helped me figure out where I truly am in my head.

7: Good Customer Service: America’s Tire – I’m thrilled that a “Good Customer Service” story made the list. The adage goes, a happy customer will tell no one, while an unhappy customer will tell everyone. That’s not true in my case, I try to give equal time to good and bad customer service.

6: O.H. in the E.R. – On of my funnier (and sad) posts about an ill-fated trip to the ER last August. My pain is your joy. The things you hear in an ER waiting room are rather funny. If you take the time to listen.

Steps
(Photo Credit: Sea Turtle on Flickr)

5: Following the Pack (or not) – A post from last February where I offer my commentary on a “gorilla marketing tactic” on Twitter that was horribly spammy. I found it interesting that my desire to speak up was met with extreme hostility and mob mentality, which border-lined on bullying. I still stand by my opinions and observations. Sometimes you have to go out on a limb. Be bold.

4: The Lone Zebra, an Educational Opportunity – Written regarding a kerfuffle in the Real Estate Community about copyright and trade dress infringement. This gave me an opportunity to put into real life practice some things I had been learning in my Business Law class. It was a great case study.

3: Guest Post: Judgment Between The Lines – I’m so thrilled you liked, or viewed, this post. It was an important post. A guest post by my close friend Sarah Salter, she writes about something I think we all struggle with: Judgement and its many forms. An extremely timely, timeless and poignant post, worthy of read, whether it’s your first time or tenth.

2: Missing The Mark: Sears – Christmas Customer Service – Wow. This post, written just six days ago, outlined some poor customer service I received from a National big box store. Outlining the systemic issues from corporate culture, to employee detachment (An employee adds his comments to the post) it has become one of my most popular Customer Service Commentary posts.

Singapore Fireworks Celebrations '08 - Korean Fantasia 3
(Photo Credit: Synchroni on Flickr)

1: You’re Welcome?!? - A post from this summer, I volunteered at a women only half marathon this year, I was struck and moved that almost every single runner, no matter how fatigued or festive, took a moment to thank the volunteers, when all I really was doing was standing in the middle of the road. I’m very thankful and grateful that this is my number one viewed post. It makes me believe that you all enjoy a little bit of gratitude in our world and maybe we/I need to be sharing a little more of it.

I’m extremely proud of these posts and some of them I think are close to “my best.” I hope that this streak continues in 2012!

School Update/Winter Break

Wow. The fall term just BLEW RIGHT BY. Actually, I am kind of thankful for that. I had a really hard time getting into the rhythm of school this term and I’m really glad for the winter break. No more school until January 9th!

I am, however, somewhat proud of my grades.
Economics: A
Human Relations/Organizations: B
Geology: C

Not bad, a B average would have still been honor roll in High School, which I would have killed for then. Still, not bad for someone who works about 40-50 hours a week, runs in his spare time, and goes to school full time. It’s still funny to me, that we (I) lament a “C” like a punch to the gut. It’s a strange place.

I also love Winter break as I’m able to catch up on all the books I want to read. So far, since Thanksgiving, I’ve ticked 3 books off my “to read” list at the Library:

Ten Thousand Saints
This Beautiful Life
Emotional Intelligence 2.0

Wall of Books

(Used under creative commons, thanks Mr. T!)

Ten Thousand Saints was a well-written, heavy, deep piece of literature on drugs, conflict, society and the “Straight Edge” music scene in the early 1980s. It was a fantastic read and I was kind of sad to be finished with it.

This Beautiful Life, in short, wasn’t. I kept reading it, hoping that it would get just a little better. It was on the verge of being great, but the writer was topical at best. The subjects weren’t well developed and the conflict was more fizz than boom. Sad.

Emotional Intelligence 2.0 – I’ve read this type of thing many times before. I’m almost always struck by how every other book spins the same information and tries to frame it in a way that is cookie-cutter for the general populace. It’s just not possible.

I’m currently reading two books, one in the car and one in print. In the car: Lost Memory of Skin (which is turning out to be really good) and I just started The Coming Jobs War. I’ll tell you about those when I’m finished.

Next to my driver’s license, the most important card in my wallet is my library card. :)

Be Thankful; I Am.

I could write something super sentimental but I thought there’s a much better way to tell you what I’ve been thankful this year. Since I like to take pictures of just about everything, I thought I’d show you.

Some Sports Firsts:

Safeco Field, Seattle, Washington, Mariners

I’ve been fortunate to attend two major sports events this year. My hometown teams, (don’t hate, I grew up in Seattle,) the Seattle Mariners, and the Seattle Seahawks games were exciting, while the Mariners lost, the Seattle Seahawks celebrated their first win of the season in a total nail biter. The stadium in Seattle is billed as one of the loudest in the National Football League. You can hear what that’s like here.

Centurylink Field Seattle Washington Seahawks

Having Enough To Eat:

I love to cook. I’ve showcased some of that here on my blog. I am fortunate and thankful that I’ve been able to provide for myself this year. There are so many people out there who cannot.

Some things I have enjoyed this year:

A balanced meal:
mmmm.  @sarahmsalter

A double-bacon heart attack: (It’s delicious!)
Humdingers Hamburgers on Barbur blvd, portland oregon

People:
To my 22 regularly subscribed readers. Thank you. Most of this what comes forth from my head is just what shakes out when I’m thinking, but you all stick with me, through the rants, through the raves and through all this. Thank you, thank you, thank you. We’re a small but determined group.

Below you’ll see some more photos of things I’ve seen this year:

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Books I want to read…

I was reading through my RSS reader and found this: 100 Notable Books of 2011

Having perused their list, I now have a reading list for 2012, and thanks to my public library (www.multcolib.org) I have them on order. Now I just have to wait to get them.

And then read them during one of my busiest school terms ever.

11/22/63
The Buddha in The Attic
Come On All You Ghosts
The Grief of Others
Lost Memory of Skin
The Sense of An Ending
Ten Thousand Saints
This Beautiful Life
Thinking, Fast and Slow
A Train in Winter: An Extraordinary Story of Women, Friendship, and Resistance in Occupied France

I’m not an affiliate of anyone. So if you click the links and buy something, great, I don’t get anything out of it. Enjoy. :)

Charting Course

Or conversely, changing direction?

Recently I posted a plea for advice as I was in a place where I had to make a decision, whether to subject myself to more schooling or to take my marbles and run.

I choose to subject myself to more torture; however, this means that I have to change majors again, and refocus my efforts, it also means, sadly, the term I am in, as far as college credits are concerned, is for naught. None of the classes apply to the transfer degree, but I do have to figure out which will actually apply to a four-year institution.

boom?

As for deciding which degree I actually pursue, I’m still not entirely certain. There is some definite pull towards communication or public relations. I guess I don’t have to decide yet. I just need to know I’m working towards something. No safety net, just close your eyes and leap.

Sometimes that’s the best you can do.

Crossroads. Help Me, Pathfinder!

I’m at a crossroad with my education. I am getting close to graduating with my Associates of Business Administration degree. (YAY!) However, I am also looking at what the future holds for me.

crossroads at night
(Used via Creative Commons, thank you dsmoljanovic!)

I am a storyteller, not as in, “the fish was this big” stories, but more so, “this is why you want to partner with us” stories. I also believe in great customer service; sales helps the bottom line grow but customer service is the key to retaining those customers. As I look at my career and what the future holds for me, I have come to the realization that I need to be working towards something greater when dealing with my education.

As you may have read in previous posts, I find it very sad that experience is not enough in this world, and that very few things that I have learned in the community college environment have been new applications to me in business. I’m certain there are things I will learn in the future that will help me in my career, but I’m having a hard time finding new things to learn, when I’ve been working for more than a decade.

3/52 Un trabajo duro / A hard work
(Used under creative commons, thank you bibigeek!)

Now that I’ve rambled on a bit, this is where I have to ask you, dear readers, for some help. As I near the end of my Associates program, I have to decide to go down one of three pathways:

1: Be done with education; take my Associates degree and run.
2: Spend more time in Community College and seek another specialized Associates Degree.
3: Pursue a Bachelors degree.

The first option is simple. Pack up my knapsack and run.

The second option is a little more difficult. I would have to do some serious soul searching to decide which program I would want to complete.
The Urn Burns (All Souls Procession)
Used under creative commons, thank you cobalt123!)

The third option is much like the second option, although I have narrowed it down to four disciplines: Communications, Public Relations, Marketing, or Journalism.
Storytelling at West Lothian libraries
(Used under creative commons, thank you Scottish Libraries!)

The reasons for one of the above four degrees are simple:

I want to tell your story.

I want to communicate with your consumers.

I want to make the consumer experience better.

Looking forward into my crystal ball, I note that I have to have a degree or pedigree, to do so. So what direction do I take?

My grandmother has always told me, “when in doubt, punt,” so I am. Any advice/observations you may have would be greatly appreciated.

Responsibility

I received this via email from one of my teachers this week. It was sent to the entire class. It reminds me that personal responsibility for your action or inaction is mandatory.

I bet he has to send it out every term.

I sometimes have to say no to my students.

I once had to tell one student that I couldn’t give them credit for submitting the answers for an assignment after the cutoff date. Even though they were sick the day the assignment was due.

I also had to tell a student that I couldn’t give them any points for an assessment quiz even they knew the right answer but forgot to “Save” the answer before selecting “Finish” for the quiz.

Another time, a student missed an final exam cutoff date because they didn’t check the exam dates. Another student forgot about the midterm exam. They wanted an extra day to do the exams. I had to tell those students no also.

Another student experienced internet communication errors when they tried to do their exam at 10:00pm on the last day the exam was available. I had to tell that student no time extension could be allowed.

Another student wanted to do the final exam two days before the deadline, but got sick, and then took a vacation airplane flight during spring break on the last day the final was available. Airplane connections were missed and the student arrived at their destination after the final exam deadline. I had to tell that student no time extension could be allowed.

All of the above students had 10 days to complete their assigned work or exam. But they had what i call “last-minute-itis”. It has been my experience that roughly 40% of any class waits until the last day that coursework or an exam is due, before they do the work. That is their right to do so. Just make sure that you fully accept the consequences of any such decision – good or bad.

This acceptance of responsibility also applies to being short a few points of getting a better grade due to neglecting to do some of the weekly module coursework etc.

One student had a total of 59.3 points at the end of the term and another student had 79.8 points at the end of the term. Both wanted some extra credit work to improve their grade even though they had not done several discussion topic posts, assessment quizzes, and assignments during the class or had not done well on the midterm or final exam. I had to tell both students no.

I have also had to tell students that even though they did the assignment before the cutoff date, they didn’t submit it by the cutoff deadline. It was their responsibility to check to see if their assignment, quiz, or discussion submission was received correctly and on time. I could not grant one student an exception when there were other students who had the same situation but never notified me and they would not have the benefit of an date extension that was given to another student.

I don’t like saying no. It bothers me and makes me sad that I could not be lenient.

I couldn’t extend cutoff dates or give extra credit work etc. because of two reasons:

1) It would be unfair to all of the other students who didn’t get the same exception.

For example, a cutoff date extension cannot be given to just one student. That would penalize all of the students who had already submitted their work or exam before the cutoff date because they would not have received the benefit of extra time to study for the exam, do the assignment etc. Once the final exam is done, some students never logon again. Giving extra credit work to some students after the end of the class and not to others is unfair.

2) The administration at Portland Community College has expressly told me that I have to follow the syllabus exactly with no deviation for the above reason of fairness. In addition, if a deviation for one student was permitted, all of the other students in the class would have justification for filing a grievance against PCC.

This is why the course syllabus is very explicit about assignment cutoff dates and times, taking of assessment quizzes once, making discussion posts instead of just reading posts by other students etc.

So students should read the syllabus and ALL my emails. Very. Carefully.

This is why the assignments, assessment quizzes, and discussion topics in my online class are each available for 10 days before their deadlines. That is more than enough time to do the work.

That time period means that problems with your computer, internet connection, being sick, on vacation somewhere else, having a job (or jobs), being in an automobile accident, having surgery, being pregnant, giving birth, being stressed, forgot, etc. etc. etc. are not valid excuses since within that time period you would normally be able to communicate with me and overcome any such problems.

The Desire2Learn website is fully functional at least 99.99% of the time. However, there are a tremendous number of hardware devices, software products, and internet communication companies between your personal computer and the Desire2Learn website. All of which can cause problems. And you may also experience communication errors within your own Desire2Learn session on your personal computer such as “Session already running” etc.

If you do your weekly coursework a few days before the cutoff deadline and email me about a problem, I still have time before the cutoff deadline to help you. If you wait until the last day and have problems, I won’t be able to help you because I may not see any email from you until after the cutoff deadline for the coursework.

So any last minute problems on the day before a cutoff date, including technology issues, are not valid excuses. This includes not only the weekly coursework but also the midterm and final exams.

So, if at all possible, always do ANY coursework or exam several days before the last day that it is due.

The only valid excuse for extending a cutoff date that will be accepted is if the student is totally physically incapacitated, e.g. in a hospital intensive care ward, such that it is impossible for them to use a computer and do the coursework.

No extra credit work is permitted because it would be unfair to the students that did not have the same opportunity.

I hate to be so dogmatic and inflexible.

I do care about your success. I want you to do well in this course and will help you understand the course material.

However, I respect all of my students enough to treat them as adults and let them judge how much time they need to do the class work and when to do it so that they meet the coursework cutoff times. Anything less would tell a student that I have no faith in them to act like an adult. And an adult takes responsibility for the consequences of their actions and decisions instead of making excuses.

You can do well in this class. But every student must take responsibility for their own success and fully understand and meet the course requirements that must be applied equally to all of the students in the class. I must let you be the one to determine how successful you will be.

It Spoke to Me

For those who know me, they know I’m a pretty big Lady Gaga fan. I love that she lets her freak flag fly in the wind and sets her sails in the face of strong winds. Her music has broken through many of my moods. This time is no exception. Today while I was in the car, I found myself drawn to one of the songs from her latest album, “Born This Way.” Although I couldn’t understand quite all of the lyrics, I found myself replaying it over and over.

When I got home tonight, I fired up my trusty search engine and typed in “Lady Gaga Lyrics Hair” and I pulled up the song on my ‘puter.

Then I listened as I read. The following things jumped off the page and slapped me in the cerebral cortex.

I just wanna be myself,
And I want you to love, me for who I am.
I just wanna be myself,
And I want you to know, I am my hair.

No wonder I’ve been drawn to this song. I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while now. But wait, there’s more…

I just wanna be free, I just wanna be me.
And I want lots of friends that invite me to their parties.
I don’t want to change, and I don’t want to be ashamed.
I’m the spirit of my hair, it’s all the glory that I bare.

I don’t want to change, but I don’t want to be the same either. I just want to be who I am, who I become or who I’ve already morphed into.

I’ve had enough, I’m not a freak.
I’m just here trying to stay cool on the streets.

Anyway, I thought I would share it with you. If you want to experience the moment I had, I used this page and I’ve embed the song below.

School Work Response

I’ve written about being in school many times on here. Some of the work is really frustrating. In one of my classes, a required Microsoft Publisher class, we were required to create a newsletter about our family or home life. I was in a really bad mood when I wrote it. The teacher’s response? “I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at your newsletter.” That’s comedic genius!

Here’s what I wrote:
Nick Newsletter