National Coming Out Day?

It’s once again National Coming Out Day. I meet this day with trepidation every year because I think that many people feel pressured to come out and do so fairly publicly.

Coming Out?

Coming out is a very personal decision. It’s not one that should be taken lightly, it’s ok to be who you are but it’s also something that you should ensure that you’re well equipped to handle, it’s not something you should go through alone. Sometimes, Coming out may just mean saying it to yourself, acknowledging it to your friends or maybe it doesn’t. Either way, having the proper support network is essential.

Having said that, some people are probably experiencing a great deal of strife as they are considering whether the should or shouldn’t come out. There’s been many statements/videos, from the President all the way down to my little dog and pony blog telling you, that if you’re having a rough time right now, it does get better – life does make you stronger, but sometimes it hits a couple of rough patches. Be wary of those.

There is a greater purpose to this day, something that should reach beyond any one group of individuals, it should reach deep inside each one of us.

o is for open
(Used under creative commons; thank you Michael W. May!)

This extends past a single day dedicated to coming out of the closet. It can mean a lot of things, “coming out” has been monopolized; however, in life we all have things that we may not feel strong enough to express publicly, that’s ok. You don’t have to, you should never feel pressured to do so, in the end, the only person you have to answer to is the one you see in the mirror everyday.

mirror ball
(Used under creative commons; Thank you Lovestruck!)

So today, and every day, be there for someone, even if it’s just saying hello. You never know what turmoil is just below the surface. You never know who needs to see that smile. You never know who would benefit from any of those things. You never know who will benefit from hearing, “You’re not alone, I’m here with you. Let’s walk together.” Maybe we all need to hear that.

It’s easy to make a difference and easy to change the course of someone’s day.

There is no harm in trying.

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12 responses to “National Coming Out Day?

  1. Great post and a great reminder about the big picture!

  2. Nancy P (@npowell)

    Awesome post Nick. 🙂

  3. I didn’t know it was National Coming Out Day. I, in fact, didn’t know that such a day existed until I got on Twitter this morning. But I love what you’re saying here. I love being reminded and being given the opportunity to remind others to love, fully, and unapologetically. And I hope that I’ll always rise to that challenge to come alongside others and walk with them–through the good times and the bad ones.

  4. Extending my hand today to be a friend and confidant to anyone who may silently wish for someone to reach out to them.

  5. I absolutely love this part as it applies to so many areas of life and living. “So today, and every day, be there for someone, even if it’s just saying hello. You never know what turmoil is just below the surface. You never know who needs to see that smile. You never know who would benefit from any of those things. You never know who will benefit from hearing, “You’re not alone, I’m here with you. Let’s walk together.” Maybe we all need to hear that.”
    You are right. We do need to hear that and not just today.

  6. It doesn’t cost a thing to be kind, and we never know the amount of blessings that bestowing simple kindness on others may be worth to them.

    Wonderful post, Nick, I always enjoys reading your thoughts. I also appreciate your combination of hope and reality.

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